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	<title>Comments on: Common Sense And Courtesy Absent In Islam</title>
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	<description>Have faith in yourself</description>
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		<title>By: sidfaiwu</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-77650</link>
		<dc:creator>sidfaiwu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-77650</guid>
		<description>Hello Emily,

Why should we have respect for her beliefs?  She certainly deserves respect as a person, but what entitles her &lt;em&gt;beliefs&lt;/em&gt; to automatic respect?  Hell, I would even respect her discomfort with physical contact, whatever the reason.  But her beliefs?  No.

How can this be?  Let me present an analogy.  I know someone who is afraid of snakes.  I respect her fear and do not expose her to any snakes.  But the &lt;em&gt;reason&lt;/em&gt; she fears snakes is not rational.  I do &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; respect her beliefs about snakes.  So you see, one can respect the odd behavioral needs of an individual &lt;em&gt;without&lt;/em&gt; respecting the underlying beliefs that give rise to those needs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Emily,</p>
<p>Why should we have respect for her beliefs?  She certainly deserves respect as a person, but what entitles her <em>beliefs</em> to automatic respect?  Hell, I would even respect her discomfort with physical contact, whatever the reason.  But her beliefs?  No.</p>
<p>How can this be?  Let me present an analogy.  I know someone who is afraid of snakes.  I respect her fear and do not expose her to any snakes.  But the <em>reason</em> she fears snakes is not rational.  I do <em>not</em> respect her beliefs about snakes.  So you see, one can respect the odd behavioral needs of an individual <em>without</em> respecting the underlying beliefs that give rise to those needs.</p>
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		<title>By: Emily</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-77643</link>
		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 13:52:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-77643</guid>
		<description>So she didn't shake hands?  How about some respect for her beliefs?  It's common in Europe for people to greet each other by embracing and kissing; I've met plenty of Americans who weren't comfortable with that.  Their hosts, however, were enlightened enough to understand that cultural and/or religious differences are just that: differences.  Those differences in themselves do not make someone rude.

That being said, if you're going to wear Niqqab (the face veil), don't insist on teaching children who aren't used to listening to women in niqaab.  It's common sense.  If they can't understand you, buckle down and figure out what's more important to you: you're resolve to wear niqaab or your desire to teach.  Same goes in the courtroom.  If you're a niqaabi, chances are you'll have some difficulty in the Western World if you choose a profession that requires a lot of public speaking.  In its most basic elements, religion has nothing to do with it: you're speaking through a piece of fabric that may prevent others from hearing you well enough to understand you.

But hijab in drivers license photos?  I sincerely don't understand what the big deal is against it.  Hijab doesn't cover up anything that is used in normal identification procedures.  Sure, it covers a woman's hair, but hair is not a reliable marker anymore as it is: a blonde one day can become a brunette the following day and bad a month later.  Even eyecolor can be changed with colored contact lenses.  So how, in reality, does hijab take anything of necessity away from a photo ID?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So she didn&#8217;t shake hands?  How about some respect for her beliefs?  It&#8217;s common in Europe for people to greet each other by embracing and kissing; I&#8217;ve met plenty of Americans who weren&#8217;t comfortable with that.  Their hosts, however, were enlightened enough to understand that cultural and/or religious differences are just that: differences.  Those differences in themselves do not make someone rude.</p>
<p>That being said, if you&#8217;re going to wear Niqqab (the face veil), don&#8217;t insist on teaching children who aren&#8217;t used to listening to women in niqaab.  It&#8217;s common sense.  If they can&#8217;t understand you, buckle down and figure out what&#8217;s more important to you: you&#8217;re resolve to wear niqaab or your desire to teach.  Same goes in the courtroom.  If you&#8217;re a niqaabi, chances are you&#8217;ll have some difficulty in the Western World if you choose a profession that requires a lot of public speaking.  In its most basic elements, religion has nothing to do with it: you&#8217;re speaking through a piece of fabric that may prevent others from hearing you well enough to understand you.</p>
<p>But hijab in drivers license photos?  I sincerely don&#8217;t understand what the big deal is against it.  Hijab doesn&#8217;t cover up anything that is used in normal identification procedures.  Sure, it covers a woman&#8217;s hair, but hair is not a reliable marker anymore as it is: a blonde one day can become a brunette the following day and bad a month later.  Even eyecolor can be changed with colored contact lenses.  So how, in reality, does hijab take anything of necessity away from a photo ID?</p>
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		<title>By: CaSaNoVa</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29997</link>
		<dc:creator>CaSaNoVa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jan 2007 22:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29997</guid>
		<description>it is worth saying that in 80's , the queen of england went to saudi arabia and respected their beliefs and weared hijab.
while other people, dont accept to take a driving license photo without the little thing that coveres all the face(without the eyes).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it is worth saying that in 80&#8217;s , the queen of england went to saudi arabia and respected their beliefs and weared hijab.<br />
while other people, dont accept to take a driving license photo without the little thing that coveres all the face(without the eyes).</p>
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		<title>By: spud</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29787</link>
		<dc:creator>spud</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jan 2007 23:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29787</guid>
		<description>What the hell is a muslim doing in Hamtramck? That's a Polish neighborhood.

Detroit is doomed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What the hell is a muslim doing in Hamtramck? That&#8217;s a Polish neighborhood.</p>
<p>Detroit is doomed!</p>
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		<title>By: Bambola</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29117</link>
		<dc:creator>Bambola</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 15:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29117</guid>
		<description>This is really scary. Muslims are getting out of control. The problem is that no one have the balls to draw the line. NO, it should not be acceptable to drive a car with your face covered. No, it should not be allowed to travel with your face covered. No you should not be in court with your face covered. No yoyu cannot be a teacher or a doctor or a police officer or ... with your face covered. This is COMON SENSE.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is really scary. Muslims are getting out of control. The problem is that no one have the balls to draw the line. NO, it should not be acceptable to drive a car with your face covered. No, it should not be allowed to travel with your face covered. No you should not be in court with your face covered. No yoyu cannot be a teacher or a doctor or a police officer or &#8230; with your face covered. This is COMON SENSE.</p>
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		<title>By: NewOne</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29113</link>
		<dc:creator>NewOne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 14:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29113</guid>
		<description>Well, fotomatt you know, facism doesn't happen by accident, we have to help it along. 

And what kind of question is that? pffft, I would of course go for the Brave New World jumpsuit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, fotomatt you know, facism doesn&#8217;t happen by accident, we have to help it along. </p>
<p>And what kind of question is that? pffft, I would of course go for the Brave New World jumpsuit.</p>
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		<title>By: fotomatt</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29070</link>
		<dc:creator>fotomatt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 09:51:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29070</guid>
		<description>NewOne said: 
"...this [ban] should include all symbols no matter what religion."

Wow! Yeah. That sounds like the free society that I want to live in. 

Perhaps we could all wear exactly the same thing in order to avoid any controversy.

Which would you prefer:
* The classic Maoist all-black everyman uniform, or
* more of a Brave New World jumpsuit.

Do you not realize that your magic solution to religious restrictions is, in fact, a proposal for a neo-fascist society? 

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As for the police officer and the school teacher, the answer seems simple: 

As a private citizen you can wear whatever you want, refuse to touch people, etc. But as an employee of the state you have to fulfill the basic job requirements. If you're not willing to do that -- because of your religion, or due to some other mental illness -- then [b]don't take the job.[/b] Duh. WTF were you thinking in the first place? Why are you wasting our time?

As for the woman in court who refused to remove her veil? She loses. Religious belief doesn't trump societal necessity. The Amish have to put headlights on their buggies and you have to show your face to the trier of fact (judge or jury). Simple, no brainer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NewOne said:<br />
&#8220;&#8230;this [ban] should include all symbols no matter what religion.&#8221;</p>
<p>Wow! Yeah. That sounds like the free society that I want to live in. </p>
<p>Perhaps we could all wear exactly the same thing in order to avoid any controversy.</p>
<p>Which would you prefer:<br />
* The classic Maoist all-black everyman uniform, or<br />
* more of a Brave New World jumpsuit.</p>
<p>Do you not realize that your magic solution to religious restrictions is, in fact, a proposal for a neo-fascist society? </p>
<p>====</p>
<p>As for the police officer and the school teacher, the answer seems simple: </p>
<p>As a private citizen you can wear whatever you want, refuse to touch people, etc. But as an employee of the state you have to fulfill the basic job requirements. If you&#8217;re not willing to do that &#8212; because of your religion, or due to some other mental illness &#8212; then [b]don&#8217;t take the job.[/b] Duh. WTF were you thinking in the first place? Why are you wasting our time?</p>
<p>As for the woman in court who refused to remove her veil? She loses. Religious belief doesn&#8217;t trump societal necessity. The Amish have to put headlights on their buggies and you have to show your face to the trier of fact (judge or jury). Simple, no brainer.</p>
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		<title>By: NewOne</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29069</link>
		<dc:creator>NewOne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 09:49:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29069</guid>
		<description>Well we could fix that, no witness, no judge and no jury, just straight to execution^^</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well we could fix that, no witness, no judge and no jury, just straight to execution^^</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29063</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 09:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29063</guid>
		<description>@NewOne

That would be a short trial:
judge: You are charged with bla bla bla the first witness, your wife
wife: I don't get it! This is how I want to live, this is how I enjoy my life, why do you interfere?

Of course you could argue that she's brainwashed, bullied or whatever you like, but in the end she's a grown up person who is (supposed to be) able to handle herself.

Oh, on an other note, for once I agree with Mohammed. The face cover is not Islamic, it is some Persian tradition(ever saw those half naked dancers who cover their faces?) But the thing about handshaking with men is still Islamic, many women here do it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@NewOne</p>
<p>That would be a short trial:<br />
judge: You are charged with bla bla bla the first witness, your wife<br />
wife: I don&#8217;t get it! This is how I want to live, this is how I enjoy my life, why do you interfere?</p>
<p>Of course you could argue that she&#8217;s brainwashed, bullied or whatever you like, but in the end she&#8217;s a grown up person who is (supposed to be) able to handle herself.</p>
<p>Oh, on an other note, for once I agree with Mohammed. The face cover is not Islamic, it is some Persian tradition(ever saw those half naked dancers who cover their faces?) But the thing about handshaking with men is still Islamic, many women here do it.</p>
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		<title>By: NewOne</title>
		<link>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29033</link>
		<dc:creator>NewOne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 07:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://religiousfreaks.com/2007/01/24/common-sense-and-courtesy-absent-in-islam/#comment-29033</guid>
		<description>My wish for the future is that all the governments in the world grew some balls and banned wearing of religious signs/clothing in public. Not just schools, colleges as in France, but all public places. BTW this should include all symbols no matter what religion. 

Further this by banning any religious restrictions, by defining them as means to control another person. If a man denies his wife walking alone out in the street, or even beside him, then of to court he goes. 

I’ve had it with this shit. In my country we have laws that have emerged through critical thinking during the last 1000 years, if you claim you have something that trumps our law then try to get it accepted/included as a general law, do not tempt applying another set of laws for the people close to you. 

As it is today we accept this BS because they hide behind the right to follow any religion, but somewhere along the way we forgot that many religions don’t only limit the believer’s actions, but also the actions of the people close to him/her. This should not be accepted because it actually violates the very same principle, since the (usually the wife) can’t believe and act according to what she defines as correct.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wish for the future is that all the governments in the world grew some balls and banned wearing of religious signs/clothing in public. Not just schools, colleges as in France, but all public places. BTW this should include all symbols no matter what religion. </p>
<p>Further this by banning any religious restrictions, by defining them as means to control another person. If a man denies his wife walking alone out in the street, or even beside him, then of to court he goes. </p>
<p>I’ve had it with this shit. In my country we have laws that have emerged through critical thinking during the last 1000 years, if you claim you have something that trumps our law then try to get it accepted/included as a general law, do not tempt applying another set of laws for the people close to you. </p>
<p>As it is today we accept this BS because they hide behind the right to follow any religion, but somewhere along the way we forgot that many religions don’t only limit the believer’s actions, but also the actions of the people close to him/her. This should not be accepted because it actually violates the very same principle, since the (usually the wife) can’t believe and act according to what she defines as correct.</p>
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